CONTRARY TO WHAT MOST PEOPLE BELIEVE, HONEYMOON ISN’T SUPPOSED to last for the first few weeks of marriage. The idea of honeymoon stoppage isn’t of God just as the idea of the Sun setting at 7 am in the morning isn’t of Him.
What’s the use of a Sun that rises as the day is just breaking only to set at 7 am; just a few hours after? It’s ridiculous, isn’t it. So honeymoon wasn’t meant to last for two weeks or even two months.
The truth is that honeymoon is simply the first taste of the sweetness of marriage. It’s the first evidence of how sweet and glorious the rest of the days, months and years of the union would be. It’s not the peak of marriage but it’s beginning!
Then the question comes: why do most Marriages experience the stoppage of honeymoon and conflicts take over?
The answer is simple: they stopped being who they were at the beginning of Marriage and they also stopped doing the beautiful things they used to do.
The words of the lady in our anchor scripture, shows the mindset of Spouses in the early stage of marriage: they are hungry for each other and they don’t pretend about it. Secondly, they freely offer themselves to each other and serve one another. The result is: joy, freedom, unity, openness to each other and harmony; just as we can see in the relationship of the couple in the Song of Solomon.
For as long as the state of the relationship remains what we have in the last paragraph, there’ll be honeymoon. Infact, honeymoon will intensify.
Having and enjoying Honeymoon consistently is comparable to cake making. For as long as you follow the recipe and the procedure for cake baking, you’ll always come out with a good and beautiful cake. Similarly, when Spouses faithfully obey the commands of God on Marriage, they’ll have a stable honeymoon marriage.
When Spouses remain as hungry for each other and as unashamed to ask for or give sexual and romantic attention to each other as they were at the beginning of their marriage, there’ll be no experience of honeymoon outage.
But when the wife begins to “get wise” and feel that it’s “unladylike” for her to be opening her legs for her husband “anytime he demands” and the husband also begins to demonstrate his own male form of selfishness by staying out late before coming home because he “feels it’s not manly” to stay at home with “a mere woman” after working hours, then the “Honey” begins to get sour and the “Moon” begins to lose its light.
So, if you don’t want to experience “honeymoon outages”, then walk in unfailing love.
When there’s unfailing love, unceasing honeymoon is sure!
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