IF YOU WANT TO ENJOY long lasting Peace and Harmony in your Marriage, you must LEARN HOW TO TALK TO YOUR SPOUSE .
Your spouse isn’t same as your employees, co-tenants, customers, pupils, clients, students, patients, parishioners, etc. Your Spouse is in a far higher class. Your Spouse is your Covenant Life Partner. You must speak to them with a different attitude.

Marriage is the deepest and closest inter personal human relationship. It’s also a Love World where you deal constantly with the HEART and EMOTIONS of your Mate. You must, therefore, always speak with soberness considering the weight of your Words and the extent of good or devastation they can do once uttered.

Never throw or hurl words at your Spouse. Never talk down to them or shout at them. NEVER correct them in public; because you never bathe in the market.

In marriage, you must use only PLEASANT WORDS in all your communication with each other.

Our anchor scripture tells us the characteristics and the power of PLEASANT WORDS.
They are like HONEYCOMBS. Honeycombs are the wax-like “bags” in which Bees make honey. Even after honey has been extracted from the honeycomb, it still retains some honey. When chewed, it’s so exhilaratingly delicious and more importantly, it’s highly enriching to both Body and Soul.

According to our anchor scripture PLEASANT WORDS make Bones HEALTHY . “How?”, you may ask? Here’s how:
Bones house the Marrows and it’s in the Marrows that BLOOD is “manufactured” for the entire Body. So, PLEASANT WORDS give health to bones because they aid, promote and boost the production of Blood in the Body!

When you speak PLEASANT WORDS to your Husband or Wife, you’re pumping joy into their SOULS and accelerating the production of BLOOD in their BODY . By speaking PLEASANT WORDS, you’re boosting the health of your beloved Mate, because pleasant Words make the heart merry and “a merry heart does good like Medicine”!

Pleasant Words can come in form of Love Letters, Love Songs, Affirmations, Admiration, Approvals, Compliments, Praise, Love Poems, Appreciation for the good things your Spouse has been doing in the family, etc. There are multiplied thousands of ways to speak to your Mate PLEASANTLY and thereby building up and strengthening your mutual love lives and marriage.

Now, does it mean when your spouse is wrong you’ll praise them for what they’ve done amiss all in the name of speaking pleasant words? No! But you can take your time to prayerfully and lovingly select the right words, as well as the best manner of approach to use to convey your disapproval without hurting, shaming or injuring your Mate.

A SHORT PRAYER
💞 Oh, Heavenly Father, we humbly enroll in your “School Of Tongue Wisdom” today!
💞 Please, teach us; train us in “How To Talk In Marriage.”
💞In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen.

❤️ IMMEDIATE ONE FLESH ACTION
Tonight, in the privacy of your Bedroom: Husband, sit down on the edge of the Bed and let your Wife sit on your laps.
As she’s comfortably seated on your laps, ADMIRE AND PRAISE HER with Pleasant and Glowing Words for FIVE MINUTES or more if you both so choose.
As she’s on your laps, Rock her gently, Rock her slowly and Caress her tenderly as you ADMIRE and PRAISE her. She deserves it because she’s your QUEEN.

HAPPY NEW MARRIAGE !