ONE OF THE SONGS I LEARNED IN THE Primary School is “Que Será Será”.
In this questions and answers Song, the answers are monotonously the same: “what will be will be, the future is not ours to see…” Meaning that man is a helpless victim of time and chance. But this isn’t true.
Of interest to those of us who are Lovebirds is the second verse of the Song which is below:
“When I grew up and fell in love
I asked my sweetheart, “What lies ahead?
Will we have rainbows day after day?”
Here’s what my sweetheart said:
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“Que será, será
Whatever will be, will be
The future’s not ours to see
Que será, será
What will be, will be”
This lady’s Sweetheart, whoever he was, either didn’t understand the question of his beautiful lady or he was altogether a love life ignoramus.
For his lady to fall in love with him in the first place, she must have been a young woman in her twenties. She definitely wasn’t underaged. She was old enough to know that literal rainbows don’t decorate the sky every fortnight let alone day after day. Apparently, his lady meant Love Rainbows, and not literal rainbows. Alas, her man was clueless; exactly how many are in marriages today.
🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈The rainbow of happy married life is not something that you helplessly fold your and say: “what will be will be, the future is not ours to see.”
The rainbow of a happy married life that’s loaded with bliss, affection, romance, passion, compassion, companionship and supercalifragilisticexpialidocious sex is one you generate! Even the physical rainbow is no happenstance or an accident. It’s generated basically by the promise that God gave to Noah, his sons and all the living creatures that came of the Ark(Genesis 9:8-16).
Thankfully, our anchor scripture tells us how to generate the rainbow of nuptial happiness. We do this by living out the commandment in our anchor scripture.
Joyful and faithful obedience to our anchor scripture enables us to have the bright and colourful lights of the rainbows of nuptial happiness shinning in our marriages round the clock without any sudden outage.
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Our anchor scripture tells us to lay hold on fervent love. This is burning and blazing Love. It’s the kind of love that would make you easily overlook the sins and shortcomings of each other. Why?
Because whether you both like it or not, you’ll err, make mistakes and wrong each other; at least once in a while. But when you’re both ablaze with love for each other, you’ll easily discountenance one another’s misdeed and easily forgive each other’s transgressions.
And even more importantly, your fervent love for each other will be a strong restrainer: keeping you from being careless with each other’s trust, love and feelings.
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A good example of a man who had fervent and blazing Love for his wife is Jacob. His love for Rachel was so intensely fervent that the seven years of serving Laban, her father, as his dowry on her were like a few days!!
Even after he had married Rachel and found that she wasn’t bringing forth children, he still loved her intensely; so much more than he loved Leah who was bearing him children!
His preference for Rachel was so loud and so open everyone could see it. And he cared less, because he was always madly in love with her. So much so that as the family approached “dangerous Esau”, Rachel and her son, Joseph, were the most hidden “treasures”. Jacob tucked them in the rear while the other women were seemingly exposed to Esau’s possible wrath.
That’s a vivid example of fervent love.
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It’s important for you to understand that loving your spouse is a choice you make. God isn’t going to force you.
The truth is, if indeed you of your own free will and volition chose your Spouse out of thousands as the one you’d spend the rest of your life with, then they deserve your respectful devotion and adoration.
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Our anchor scripture exhorts us to lay hold on blazing love. Where do we find it? It’s in Christ.
If you’re in Christ, the Grace of GOD in your life gives you the capacity to powerfully manifest this glorious love.
This love will make you see beauty in your Spouse when others see ugliness.
It will make you to both cling and cleave to each other happily through the lean seasons of life until Heaven’s fatness is rained upon your union and your story is changed.
Yes, you can have the rainbow of nuptial love and happiness day after day; as you’re fervently ablaze with passion, affection and compassion for each other continually.
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💕❤️Tonight’s Assignment In The Bedroom:
Reread today’s devotional piece together and discuss it.
Then you will pick up your HARP and make some music. Prayer music!
✝️ JESUS IS LORD FOREVER!
Only Jesus can save your soul from going to Hell.
If you haven’t yet received HIM, please ask Him to come into your heart and save you and He will.
Don’t delay!!! Receive Him TODAY!!!
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ANOINTED MUSIC SECTION