The Bible says:
“Give INSTRUCTION to a wise man, and he will be yet wiser: TEACH a just man, and he will increase in learning.”(Proverbs 9:9)
The verse above shows that no one comes to a place where they’re too big to benefit from additional information and knowledge.
It shows that receiving more knowledge through INSTRUCTORS AND TEACHERS lead to increase.
Increase implies growth, transformation and elevation in status.
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Most marriages are not experiencing growth, transformation and promotion. They’re small and dwarfish from year to year because of the lack of more knowledge.
What makes a marriage tick isn’t your great looks, shape and wonderful bodily endowments. Rather, it’s your large knowledge base. Your practice of marriage can never be higher than the level of your knowledge of God’s Word on Marriage.
Just as God’s Word in our anchor scripture declares, Spouses and marriages that are deficient in knowledge end up becoming preys to Satan, the ubiquitous and heartless stealer, killer and destroyer!
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It doesn’t matter how flashy and successful a marriage may seem outwardly for very many years. If the Spouses are not nourished with the knowledge of God’s Word on Marriage, it’s just a matter of time and the process of destruction will quietly set in.
Just as your physical and spiritual lives have an inbuilt capacity for growth and enlargement as well as for shrinkage and decline, so is your Marriage. It’s growth potentials are triggered by the ingestion of knowledge and faithful and enthusiastic obedience to same.
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For instance, in an aspect of marriage so basic as sexual intimacy, many couples are still plagued with ignorance that result in the destruction of that sacred sanctum of their covenant life.
Some wives sneak out and pay men to sleep with them because of their wrong belief that their husband doesn’t know “how to satisfy a woman”! They say, “He doesn’t know how to make love to a woman.” Put more openly they say, “My Oga no sabi fuck woman.” It’s an unfortunate mindset that’s born out of the erroneous belief that sexual intimacy is something a man DOES TO a woman. To them it’s like being in an injection room where you bare your butts and stand idle while the nurse carries out all the action of injecting you.
To these ignorant housewives, sexual intimacy is like going to the hairdresser and you sit idle while the hairdresser does ALL THE WORK.
Such ignorant wives are so deceived that they forget that another name for sexual intimacy is intercourse. The word Intercourse implies that it’s an activity that involves the full PARTICIPATION of both Spouses and no one should be an indolent spectator. Such misguided wives believe in bedroom passivity as the rightful feminine response during sexual intimacy.
Dear Housewife, inactivity and passivity are not the feminine mode for sexual intimacy in marriage.
In marriage, the wife must be as sexually active as her husband once they’re together on the bed of love. Here at Maximum Marriage Ministries, we teach wives to use the active-aggresive method rather than the passive- receptive.
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Truth be told, Husbands are not exempt from the “plague” of matrimonial ignorance. Many of them lack the knowledge of God’s Word on Marriage which is why they’re neck deep in the sin of sexual immorality even though they’re already blessed with beautiful wives.
That you were patronizing harlots since your teenage years doesn’t make you a good lover in marriage. You need Bible based knowledge of how to conduct yourself on the bed of love.
For instance, the Bible says:
“Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.”(Philippians 2:4)
In light of the verse immediately above, a husband shouldn’t be after self gratification during the hallowed hours of intimacy but should be first and foremost mindful of doing everything he should to ensure that his wife is tremendously satisfied in every session of congress. This among other things implies learning to control himself to be able to last in bed for as long as his wife needs him.
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In conclusion, Spouses need to be always mindful of the verse below:
“Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.”(1 Corinthians 7:3)
This scripture states authoritatively that Spouses should RENDER the full blessings inherent in sexual intimacy to their Partner. It demands that they deliver the full measure of satisfying sexual thrill to each other.
Doing this requires both Spouses putting in their best; leaving no stone unturned in their quest and commitment to satisfy their beloved Spouse.
💕❤️Tonight’s Assignment In The Bedroom:
Reread today’s devotional piece together and discuss it.
✝️ JESUS IS LORD FOREVER!
Only Jesus can save your soul from going to Hell.
If you haven’t yet received HIM, please ask Him to come into your heart and save you and He will.
Don’t delay!!! Receive Him TODAY!!!
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