🥥🥕🍒🍉🍍​When God spoke the glorious words of Genesis 2:18, promising to create a “helper” for man, He intended to give him the very best companion—one who would be most suitable, most appropriate, and most fitting. And that is exactly what He did when He made the woman.
🥥​Just as no good father would promise his son a pair of shoes and then buy an oversized or undersized pair, God ensured even more so that the woman was the man’s size—physically, spiritually, romantically, and sexually.
🥕​Unfortunately, we live on a planet that the devil has filled with all manner of lies, half-truths, and misinformation: from false theories and postulations in academic texts to the superstitions, myths, and taboos that past generations have handed down to the present as culture and tradition.
🥥🥕🍒🍉🍍​LIES ABOUT FEMALE SEXUALITY
​Part of these lies includes fallacies about the female gender. Among them are claims that women are naturally less sexually motivated than men and have a lower sexual appetite, or that women are “colder than men.” To make matters worse, the vast majority of women have somehow believed these lies without question and behave accordingly. This has led many men to conclude that because women have a lower sex drive, one wife is not enough to cope with their own “massive and hot” sex drive, leading them to feel they need to marry more than one wife. As a result, there is a widespread belief that men are polygamous by nature. But this is absolutely untrue. God created man as a monogamous being.
🥥🥕🍒🍉🍍​THE TRUTH
​Men and women were created by God with equal sexual capacity and needs. A wife needs sexual intimacy as fervently and hungrily as her husband—not a bit less. It is the devil’s widespread lie that “women have a low sex drive” that causes many wives to pretend and act hypocritically, fearing they might be accused of being overly sexual. The reality is this: wives have as explosive a sex drive as their husbands.
🍒​A housewife I know once said to another: “If there’s anything I love in marriage, it’s sexual intimacy.” This is a woman of candour and boldness. The lady she spoke to shared this with me during a counseling session, perhaps thinking I would be appalled because I knew the woman. Why would I be appalled to learn that a wife is liberated enough to speak her mind? I would rather doff my hat for her, because I know that billions of married couples are not emotionally, mentally, physically, or spiritually liberated enough to freely and fully enjoy the sexual aspect of their marriage as they ought.
🥥🥕🍒🍉🍍​EVERY WIFE IS AN “EZER”
​When God promised to make a helper for man in Genesis 2:18, the word translated as “helper” is Ezer in Hebrew, which means: AN AGENT OF RESCUE, A STRONG HELPER, AND A STRONG POWER.
🍉​When you bring the word Ezer into the sexual realm of marriage, you begin to understand that a wife is AN AGENT OF SEXUAL RESCUE, A STRONG SEXUAL HELPER, and A STRONG SEXUAL PARTNER. Can you see that a wife is the true fulfillment of God’s promise in Genesis 2:18? God said, “I WILL MAKE HIM A HELPER SUITABLE FOR HIM.”
🍍​In a world overflowing with sexual temptations as it is today, no man needs a wife who is sexually feeble, weak, or inadequate in the bedroom—and vice versa. Thankfully, every wife is sexually adequate because she is an Ezer!
🥥🥕🍒🍉🍍​DEMYSTIFYING THE SIZE FACTOR
​When you understand what we have established so far—that God made the woman to fit the man, to be appropriate, suitable, and a perfect match for him—you will also realize that in marriage, no husband is oversized or undersized for his wife, and no wife is oversized or undersized for her husband. Let me explain.
🥥🥕🍒🍉🍍​DWELL TOGETHER ACCORDING TO KNOWLEDGE
​A housewife once told a marriage counselor: “My husband’s big penis is destroying our sex life. Every time we have sex, my vulva tears.” Another woman shared that her partner has “an extremely small penis. He can get an erection and we are able to have penetrative sex, but I often feel little to nothing.”
🥥​When we weigh each of these complaints on the scales of Scripture, we find that they are completely weightless. They do not stand up as valid reasons for wives to walk away from their marriages—as some have done over issues of penis size. Those who took such drastic steps did so out of ignorance.
🥕​Hear this: every man and every woman was divinely foreknown by God and constructed to fit into the bedroom life of the spouse they would eventually marry. Size does not hinder anything. Spouses simply need to approach their sex lives with KNOWLEDGE. God says to husbands:
​”Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel”(1 Peter 3:7).
🍒​This scripture must guide your sex life as a couple. Ignorance of—and non-compliance with—this instruction is the very reason those women were complaining about their husbands’ size.
🍉​In creating the woman, God designed her vagina to adapt to a penis of any size. That is why you see sex workers(harlots) sleeping with men of varying physical dimensions without anatomical barrier.
🥥🥕🍒🍉🍍​CONCLUSION
​Understand these key facts about women:
🍉(1) ​The vagina is also the birth canal. It is spacious enough for a baby to pass through, which means it is more than capable of accommodating a husband’s penis, regardless of size. However, remember that the body prepares over several months to adapt to childbirth. Similarly, a husband must prepare his wife through sufficient and PROLONGED FOREPLAY, ensuring she’s fully aroused and her vagina is fully lubricated before attempting full penetration. Once she is FULLY LUBRICATED, the wife should be the one to hold the erect penis and gently insert it into her vagina—not the husband! The husband should never force his way inside. Rough, unguided entry was what caused the tearing reported by the woman mentioned earlier. That approach is entirely wrong.
🥥(2) ​A woman’s primary center for pleasure is external. The female anatomy is designed so that most of the nerve endings that trigger pleasure and orgasm are located in the clitoris, not inside the vagina. In fact, the clitoris contains over 10,000 nerve endings densely packed into one small area. As for the vagina, only the first inch and a half contains intense pleasure-sensing nerves. A small penis will at erection stretch to at least two inches in length and therefore fully capable to effectively pleasure the first one and half inches of the vagina that’s dense with nerve endings. And the husband with a big penis does not need to do deep penetration for his wife to experience an orgasm since the vagina’s nerve endings are in it’s first one and half inches. However, if she so desires, he is free to honour her preference.
🥕​While actively inside her, the husband should simultaneously stimulate her clitoris softly and gently with his fingers. This combination will bring her immense and intense sexual satisfaction.
🍒​God’s design ensures that spouses are sexually matched. The husband with a big penis has no special advantages over the husband with a small penis. Similarly, the wife with big, long breasts has no advantages over the lady with small breasts. They are all EQUALLY sweet.
When couples acquire knowledge and apply it, their bedroom life will consistently be fulfilling and extraordinary.🍉🥥
💕♥️🩷Tonight’s Bedroom Assignment:
Re-read this devotional together just before bedtime and discuss it with open and sincere hearts.
 ✝️Altar Call: Jesus Christ is calling you! Come to Him today in genuine repentance. Believe in Him and be saved!
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🥥🥕🍒🍉🍍 HALLELUJAH!!!