
🤎💜🧡In marriage, character is the ultimate asset. It is the defining quality that elevated the “Virtuous Woman” of Proverbs 31, making her to standout in her generation and earning her the heartfelt praise of her husband, children, and community.
🤎💜🧡THE LIMITS OF GOOD-LOOKS
Physical allure—a shapely figure, clear skin, an elegant poise, or a voice as melodic as 1960s Congolese rumba—certainly has its charm. These traits are wonderful to possess, but they are merely ornamental. Even when they all exist in abundance in a person, they lack the substance required to bridge the gaps left by a flawed character.
🤎💜🧡THE FOUNDATION FOR MARITAL LONGEVITY
Deficiency in character is the primary reason the landscape of modern society is littered with the remnants of failed marriages and broken homes. While beauty may spark an attraction, only integrity, patience, and kindness can sustain a union.
🤎💜🧡THE BOTTOM LINE
In the context of marriage, character is the “real deal.” If you prioritize and cultivate it, you won’t just survive your matrimony—you will excel in it.
A good and godly character will make you an extremely valuable asset to your mate. It will make them cherish you, seek you, desire you and cleave to you joyfully.
🤎💜🧡MORE OR LESS OF YOU
No matter how much beauty or handsomeness you exuded at the beginning of your relationship, after some years of marriage, what your mate will be seeing won’t be the shapes and colours of your physical body but the kind of character that flows out from your inner being. It’s what will make them want more or less of you.
💕❤️ Tonight’s Bedroom Assignment:
Reread this devotional together just before bedtime and discuss it with an open and sincere heart.
📚📖✒️ Quotes For Reflection:
“In the Marriage Bedroom, First-Lovers don’t seek self gratification but are sincerely and firstly after the joy and satisfaction of their Mate. They’ve learnt this secret: their own sexual satisfaction is hidden in the sexual fulfillment of their Mate.”(Anselm Ahman. From Lovebirds’ Devotional of August 7, 2024)
✝️ Altar Call:
Jesus Christ is calling you! Come to Him today and be saved!
🌡️⚗️ Scientific Info To Boost Your Marriage:
“Kissing can help relieve headaches, particularly tension-related ones.”
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