LOVEBIRDS' DEVOTIONAL

Enriching Matrimonies

SPOUSES ARE “SEX CONDITIONERS”

Scripture:
‘BUT IF THEY CANNOT CONTAIN, LET THEM MARRY: FOR IT IS BETTER TO MARRY THAN TO BURN.’
(1 CORINTHIANS 7:9)

​💕🤎Dear spouse, you are in your partner’s life to serve as their “Sex Conditioner.” Your erotic presence should be so strong that it sufficiently provides for all their romantic and amorous needs. It should ensure that, at no time, are they “overheating” with lust.

💕🤎DON’T LEAVE YOUR SPOUSE TO BE ABLAZE WITH LUST 
​Our anchor scripture says:
“But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.” (1 Corinthians 7:8-9)

​This scripture reveals a profound truth about human sexuality: there is a stage of being ablaze with the fiery flames of lust. The preventive solution to this sexual inferno is marriage. This means that as a spouse, your presence and amorous impact should be so strong that your partner never becomes so sexually ablaze that they resort to infidelity.

​Just as Jochebed, the mother of Moses, dutifully stayed nearby to promptly fix her nipple in her son’s mouth at the faintest sound of his cry—ensuring he wasn’t discovered and killed by the Egyptians—so should you watch over your spouse’s life. Notice when they need sexual attention and promptly attend to them before the enemy attempts to defile them.

​Tragically, many spouses are uncommitted to their duty of ensuring that their partner’s sexual urges never become a wild bushfire that threatens the sanctity of the family and the home.

💕🤎​A SEXUAL SERVICES PROVIDER 
​Dear spouses, from today, recognize the fact that you are a “sexual services provider” assigned by God to faithfully attend to the amorous needs of your partner. Similarly, your mate is the “sexual services provider” assigned to dutifully attend to your romantic and sexual needs.

​If you truly understand this teaching, you won’t wait to be begged, implored, pampered, or given gifts before you respond to your mate. It is absolutely uncalled for for your mate to have to beg for intimacy, or for you to withhold it as a bargaining chip.

💕🤎ORDERED TO GIVE SEXUAL SERVICES 
​When you look at the pages of Scripture, you will not find a single verse that tells you to wait to be begged before meeting your spouse’s needs. Instead, God orders you to step out and promptly render sexual services to your husband or wife:
​”Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.” (1 Corinthians 7:3)

​In light of our anchor scripture, it is your duty to see to it that your spouse’s sexual flame never goes “off-range.” Do not let it turn into a mighty conflagration that destroys the integrity and the life you have both spent years building! Always remember that as a husband or wife, you are a “Sex Conditioner” assigned to your mate to ensure that their “sexual temperature” never becomes unhealthy or dangerous.

​💕🤎THE STEWARDSHIP OF PLEASURE 
​When you prioritize your spouse’s sexual fulfillment, you are building a fortress around your marriage that no external temptation can penetrate.

True marital harmony is found when both partners stop asking, “What am I getting?” and start asking, “Am I keeping my partner’s heart fulfilled and satisfied?” By becoming a consistent source of romantic refreshment, you transform the marriage bed from a place of mere rest and sleep into a sanctuary of peace, safety, and spiritual strength.

💕❤️ Tonight’s Bedroom Assignment:
Reread this devotional together just before bedtime and discuss it with open and sincere hearts.

📚📖✒️ Quotes For Reflection:
“​Don’t make the mistake of attacking your mate in the name of removing the blemishes you’ve noted in their life. Instead, walk in fervent love(1 Peter 4:8), which is the best detergent for washing away a multitude of sins.”(Anselm Ahman. Lovebirds’ Devotional, April 17, 2026)

✝️ Altar Call:
Jesus Christ is calling you! Come to Him today and be saved!

🌡️⚗️ Scientific Info To Boost Your Marriage:
“Increased regular orgasms are associated with lowered risk of type-2 diabetes and better cardiovascular health.”

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