LOVEBIRDS' DEVOTIONAL

Enriching Matrimonies

TEND, DON’T DIM!

Scripture:
‘AND UNTO THE WOMAN HE SAID, I WILL GREATLY MULTIPLY THY SORROW AND THY CONCEPTION; IN SORROW THOU SHALT BRING FORTH CHILDREN; AND THY DESIRE SHALL BE TO THY HUSBAND, AND HE SHALL RULE OVER THEE.’
(GENESIS 3:16)

🧡🩷🍷🍂​After the Fall of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, God decreed that the woman would experience labor pains during childbirth; yet her desire for sexual intimacy with her husband would not lessen, wane, or diminish, but would instead remain as alive and strong as before the Fall. And that’s how it has remained ever since. Every woman has a fervent and blazing sex drive.

🧡🩷🍷🍂​GOD FIXED IT THAT WAY, DON’T CHANGE IT!
​Consequently, women continue to desire an intense and thrilling bedroom life with their husbands, despite the fact that they encounter pain at the time of labour. Some women have even been known to swear aloud during the peak moments of labour pangs that that particular visit to the delivery room was surely and most certainly their very last in this life. But after the baby arrived and they got home, the great oath sworn was soon forgotten without the faintest persuasion from anyone. Madam has since returned to the matrimonial bed, resumed duties, and has been drinking in the pleasures of love from her husband. Why? The reason is simple: God set things up this way and we can’t change it. His reason is no mystery—it is His plan that sexual intimacy be a consistent and continual feature in every marriage. That is His perfect will, and it gives Him pleasure (Revelation 4:11).

🧡🩷🍷🍂​HUSBANDS ARE NO DIFFERENT
​And in husbands, the desire for conjugal love with their wives is equally fierce, fiery, fervent, and undying. Even when they have had a stormy misunderstanding with their wife that seems to have shaken the very foundation of their union, within just thirty minutes after the volcanic brouhaha, the desire for his wife silently begins to build up again. Why? It is because God ordained it that way, and it is permanent.

🧡🩷🍷🍂​DON’T DIM IT
​In view of these concrete matrimonial realities, spouses should know that they are in each other’s lives as PASSION TENDERS, ROMANCE ENHANCERS, and SEXUAL DESIRE ATTENDANTS whose duty is to nourish these solemn aspects of one another’s life and see them strong, healthy, and growing, rather than doing anything that would make them dwindle, reduce, or shrink.

🧡🩷🍷🍂​FIRE CONTROL OFFICERS
​In 1 Corinthians 7:9, there is a quiet but powerful truth. That truth is that sexual desire is a fire. Here is the scripture:
​”But if they cannot contain, let them marry: FOR IT IS BETTER TO MARRY THAN TO BURN.” (1 Corinthians 7:9).
​The part of the scripture above in capital letters reveals that sexual desire is a fire—specifically, the word BURN. It points to sexual desire as a fire that, if not attended to by a marriage partner, could grow into a mighty conflagration that destroys! It can completely raze the life, good name, destiny, and integrity of a man or woman. That is why St. Paul recommended marriage in that verse. In effect, it means that once married, one of the spouses’ duties to each other is to tend the flames of sexual desire in each other’s life and ensure that at no time does it become a huge and destructive inferno.

🧡🩷🍷🍂​CONCLUSION
​The burning sexual desire of your mate is from God. It is not sinful to have a strong and healthy sexual desire. And when both of you are this way, what a wonderful blessing it is. You should do your best to serve each other faithfully as Passion Handlers, Romance Enhancers, and Sexual Desire Attendants. Always ensure that you are at your duty post in these aspects of your mate’s life. Tend the flames of each other’s love. Don’t dim it.🍷🍂

💕♥️🩷Tonight’s Bedroom Assignment:Reread this devotional together just before bedtime and discuss it with open and sincere hearts.

✝️Altar Call:Jesus Christ is calling you! Come to Him today in genuine repentance. Believe in Him and be saved!

🌡️🧪⚗️Scientific Info To Boost Your Marriage:
“Fruits naturally boost sexual energy by promoting healthy blood circulation and supplying stamina-building nutrients. Top choices include watermelon (rich in L-citrulline to relax blood vessels), pomegranates (packed with antioxidants to improve blood flow), and avocados (loaded with healthy fats and Vitamin B6 for sustained energy and hormonal balance).”

🍷🍂HALLELUJAH!