🌹🌺🌸🌷In her excellent book titled: Forever My Love, American author Margaret Hardisty told the true-life story of a pastor who, for seventeen years of marriage, could not satisfy his wife sexually. The wife was not angry, but she was honest and forthright enough to let him know that her sexual needs were not being met.
🌺Even though he was not impotent, he was mystified as to why he could not satisfy his beloved wife. Her dissatisfaction became a great source of concern to him, and he went from one marriage counselor to another seeking a solution. Surprisingly, none of the professional marriage counselors he consulted had the answer. They were as much in the dark as he was.
🌹🌺🌸🌷IGNORANCE IN THE MOST UNLIKELY PLACES
Can you imagine a man seeing one marriage counselor after another, year after year, in modern-day America, and none could figure out why he could not give his wife the satisfaction she truly deserved and earnestly craved?
🌺Well, if you are astonished at why counselor after counselor had no idea why the pastor was not satisfying his wife, read the following excerpts from a medical article that was published over five years ago:
”Medical textbooks are full of anatomical pictures of the penis, but the clitoris barely rates a mention. Many medical professionals are uncomfortable even talking about it.”
🌺Read more about the silence surrounding the clitoris, even among medical experts in the field of human sexuality:
“It is not discussed,” says De Costa, who is also a professor of obstetrics and gynaecology at James Cook University. “I go to conferences, I go to workshops, I edit the journal, I read other journals. I read papers all the time, and never do I find mention of the clitoris.”
🌺When highly placed medical experts in the relevant fields of first-world universities find it uneasy and embarrassing to unabashedly speak about the clitoris, it means that the onus is on the church to save the situation. Why? Because the church is “the pillar and ground of the truth” (1 Timothy 3:15). That is why we, at Maximum Marriage Ministries, are duty-bound to teach about the clitoris and its irrefutable place and role in your marriage.
🌹🌺🌸🌷FINALLY, THE LAST COUNSELOR
Now, let us continue the story of the pastor whose wife was sexually frustrated for nearly twenty years.
🌹One fine day, he painstakingly visited yet another counselor. This new counselor began by asking him if he ever touched his wife’s clitoris during sexual intercourse. The pastor was surprised at the name, “Clitoris.” What could it be? The counselor patiently educated him about the clitoris, where to locate it on his wife’s body, and how to stimulate it. This was how his seventeen-year sexual nightmare finally came to an end. Knowledge of the truth worked a miracle!
🌹And it might surprise you to hear that even the wife had no idea about the clitoris and what it is, even though it had been a part of her body from birth. She was in complete ignorance about it until her husband told her what the final counselor had shared with him.
🌹🌺🌸🌷EIGHT MONTHS AGO
In the Lovebirds’ Devotional of November 23, 2025, we taught on “The Clitoris” because knowledge of it is not just necessary and important, but critically crucial for you as a married person. In that message, we said:
🌺”People talk at the top of their voices when discussing the liver, the heart, the lungs, the brain, teeth, or even the eyes. But when you mention the penis or the vagina openly, some take offense. How much more when you go on to mention the CLITORIS?
But it was St. Augustine who said, ‘IT IS NOT RIGHT FOR US TO BE ASHAMED TO CALL BY THEIR NAMES THE THINGS THAT GOD WAS NOT ASHAMED TO CREATE.’ God was not ashamed to create the clitoris, and we have no business being ashamed to talk about it—especially in a gathering of married couples.
The clitoris is one of the things God created from the rib which He took from the body of Adam. It is no accident in the body of the wife.
Like our ears, hands, teeth, nose, and other parts of the body, the CLITORIS was created consciously and deliberately by God and placed in the body of the wife for a definite purpose and function.
Just as the mouth’s function is to eat, drink, talk, pray, and praise God, so also does the clitoris have a clearly assigned duty. Its work is to give PLEASURE to the husband and his wife.
It is in the body of the wife, but it is not to be stimulated by her. The person to stimulate it is the husband. And the great beauty of it is: when the husband stimulates it, both of them intensely enjoy it.
Unfortunately, the widespread silence and hush-hush attitude surrounding the clitoris has made most married couples either completely ignorant about it, or they know so little about it that they are unmotivated to explore its great potential.”
🌺We wrote the above eight months ago so you and your spouse would be enlightened about the clitoris, its role, and its purpose, and to stir you up to make the most of it in enriching your mutual sexual experiences in marriage.
🌹🌺🌸🌷CREATED TO GIVE YOU PLEASURE
The clitoris was created by God for one purpose: PLEASURE. Every husband and wife need to know this and dedicate more time and attention to engaging the wife’s clitoris during their times of intimacy.
🌹What salt is to your meal, sugar to your tea, butter to your bread, and breathing to your life, the stimulation of the clitoris is to each and every one of your sexual encounters as a couple.
🌹Stimulating the clitoris is not an optional activity that you perform sometimes and skip at other times. This is, unfortunately, how many husbands view it, but it is a very wrong perspective.
🌹Stimulating the clitoris is essential and compulsory every time you come together for sexual intimacy. The only exception is when your wife explicitly tells you to skip it.
🌹🌺🌸🌷CONCLUSION
On the whole, husbands must submit to their wife’s direction and instructions on how she wants her clitoris stimulated. Why? Because it is primarily in her body, even though you are one flesh. She knows how she wants it handled. Therefore, follow what she tells you, and you will both be thrilled beyond words during every sexual encounter. 🌸🌷
💕♥️🩷Tonight’s Bedroom Assignment:
Re-read this devotional together just before bedtime and discuss it with open and sincere hearts.
✝️Altar Call: Jesus Christ is calling you! Come to Him today in genuine repentance. Believe in Him and be saved!
🌡️🧪⚗️Scientific Info To Boost Your Marriage:
“Coconut Water: Hydrates and replenishes electrolytes, which naturally boosts energy and stamina. It also contains potassium and magnesium, which support the blood flow needed for healthy erections and sexual function.”
🌹🌺🌸🌷 HALLELUJAH!!!
To read our earlier Devotional message on THE CLITORIS (23/11/2025) click on the link below:
https://maximum-marriage-ministries.net/devo/the-clitoris/