REPRIORITIZING YOUR LOVERHOOD

ON THE DAY YOU GOT MARRIED, you and your Spouse became divinely licenced Lovers. You were fully authorized by God to practice all the various forms of Love: agape, phileo and eros. Once married therefore, the next thing was to throw yourselves fully into having a continual and blazing love affair with each other. But […]
ARE YOU LISTENING TO HUSHAI?

When Absalom rose up against his father, King David, he amazingly met no resistance. (2 Samuel 15:13-16). The King and his men evacuated the city in great hurry. But for the fact that it was an ugly case of a son revolting against his own father, Absalom’s thunderstorm strike on David’s government which led to […]
ARE YOU LISTENING TO JONADAB?

AT A VERY CRITICAL time in his love life when he badly needed counsel and direction over the strange development he was experiencing,instead of taking time to thoroughly pray and get counsel from God like his father, King David, Ammon listened to Jonadab, a subtle fellow who adviced him to rape his sister. The consequence […]
ROOT OUT EVERY PLANTING OF THE ENEMY!

THE DEVIL HATES EVERY kingdom structure on earth of which marriage is the first. The devil seeks to thwart or pervert everything over which the will of God is revealed. Our anchor scripture reveals the mind of God over marriages: what God has joined, no man should put asunder. This means that God wants the […]
REMEMBERING THE GREAT FR. COTÉ

AS A TEN YEAR old boy, I joined the children choir that constituted strictly of primary school kids from St. Boniface Primary School, Idah. We were groomed by our Headmaster Mr Akagu, a very good disciplinarian. It was our privilege to sing in the huge St Boniface Cathedral on Sundays. With that background, it was […]
SPOUSES: THE AUDACITY TO LIVE YOUR LOVE LIVES TO THE FULLEST

WHEN THE SCRIPTURE says that the righteous are bold as a lion(Proverbs 28:1b), it implies so much more than being brave and daring in the face of danger. It also means being bold enough to be different. It means not doing things as others expect when God has given you the liberty of better and […]
LIFETIME HONEYMOONERS

🌃🌹Honeymoon is not a period.Neither is it a season in the couple’s life and relationship.The whole of Marriage is meant to be a ceaseless, continual and an increasingly intensifying Honeymoon! 🌃🌹Literally speaking, “Honeymoon” is a combination of two significant words. The first is Honey, which is one of the sweetest and healthiest foods. It’s also […]
KING-SIZE LIBERALITY IN MARRIAGE

🍇🌹🍇🌹The relationship of Christ and the Church is set forth as the example or model for all Spouses to follow. 🍇🌹🍇🌹An important aspect of the relationship of Christ and His Church is GIVING. 🍇🌹🍇🌹Christ gives and gives to the Church. Infact, He began by giving Himself for the redemption of the Church. And ever since, […]
SPOUSES, BEWARE OF THE TRADITIONS AND CULTURE OF MEN!

There is “Christian Culture” which is completely different from CHRISTIANITY and is actually an adversary to it; just as there are traditional or tribal culture that oppose Christianity. Very early in my spiritual life, I encountered the so-called “Christian Culture” and below is one of such instances. It was a bright Saturday morning in the […]
POVERTY OF LOVE

🌹Poverty of Love refers to the state of being highly deficient in the attributes of Love. 🌹Poverty of Love is one of worst forms of poverty. It makes the Spouse who’s stricken by it hard hearted and almost always unloving, rude and harsh to their Mate. 🌹It’s not a sickness or an ailment but rather […]