THE CLITORIS (PT 2)

๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒบ๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒทIn her excellent book titled: Forever My Love, American author Margaret Hardisty told the true-life story of a pastor who, for seventeen years of marriage, could not satisfy his wife sexually. The wife was not angry, but she was honest and forthright enough to let him know that her sexual needs were not being met. […]

BUILDING AN AFFAIR-PROOF MARRIAGE

โ™‚๏ธโ™€๏ธ๐Ÿช–๐Ÿ’• ๐ŸŒนMarriage as an institution has enemies. Foremost among them are the forces of infidelity that are on the loose everywhere. โ™‚๏ธโ™€๏ธ๐Ÿช–๐Ÿ’•๐ŸŒนBE PROACTIVE ABOUT INFIDELITY โ€‹Every couple must firmly agree to actively protect their marriage. How do you protect your marriage? By being proactive and mutually observing some basic precautionary rules and principles. We are […]

EXCLUSIVELY YOURS

๐Ÿž๐Ÿฅž๐Ÿฅช๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ–TO HAVE AND TO HOLD โ€‹๐ŸžOn the day God joined you and your spouse in marriage, He wholeheartedly gave them to you to have, to hold, to keep, and to enjoy as your covenant lover, for as long as you are both alive. ๐Ÿžโ€‹He also gave you the means of holding and keeping them. This […]

THE MIRROR

๐Ÿฉทโ™ฅ๏ธ๐ŸŒน๐Ÿ’•๐ŸชžWe all know the work of the Mirror. It is to tell you, in very blunt terms, how you look. It will show you exactly how the oversized coat you thoughtlessly bought at the ramshackle, second-hand clothing stall, looks on you. If you appear comical and hilarious in the capacious jacket rather than stylish as […]

LET YOUR EYES BE OPEN

โ™€๏ธโ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ‘ ๐ŸงขMany years ago, I met a beloved brother at Ogugu, in Kogi State, Nigeria. He is one of my elders in the faith of our Lord Jesus Christ, who saw my beginnings as a new convert in Christ. Since we hadn’t seen each other for years, our conversation soon turned to the days when we […]

TEND, DON’T DIM!

๐Ÿงก๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ‚โ€‹After the Fall of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, God decreed that the woman would experience labor pains during childbirth; yet her desire for sexual intimacy with her husband would not lessen, wane, or diminish, but would instead remain as alive and strong as before the Fall. And that’s how it has […]

BE CHRISTLIKE IN YOUR MARRIAGE

๐ŸคŽ๐Ÿซ˜๐ŸŒ„A preacher came back home and met his wife absent. Then word reached him, that his wife was committing adultery with one of his male neighbours who lived downstairs. ๐ŸคŽ๐Ÿซ˜๐ŸŒ„INSTEAD OF FIGHTING HE PRAYEDInstead of being full of rage and fury, and spoiling for a fight, as most most men would do in the face […]

COUPLES’ COSTLY CARELESSNESS (PT. 2)

๐Ÿ’š๐ŸคŽโค๏ธ๐Ÿฉต๐Ÿงกโ€‹As a couple, you need to exercise maturity at all times and in all things. You must constantly be mindful of the fact that, even though your home belongs to you, it has also become the domicile of your children, house helps, and the dependents who live under your roof. Even more importantly, your home […]

CHERISH YOUR WIFE

๐ŸคŽ๐Ÿฉท๐ŸŽปMORE THAN A GOOD PROVIDER. Husbands, you are called in marriage to do far more than merely live under the same roof with your wife and be a good provider. In fact, you are not to merely love her. You are to love her exceptionally, uniquely, and supremely. Put another way, you are to be […]

COUPLES’ COSTLY CARELESSNESS

๐ŸŒ„๐ŸคŽ๐Ÿซ˜๐ŸšชLong ago in the 1970s, a male relative of mine, who was about the same age as me, was sent early in the morning by our uncle Mr. ABC to deliver a message to Mr. XYZ. Of course, he knew the home of Mr. XYZ and so sped off like a rocket, racing as if […]