♀️♂️💜💚📐📏🧢👒When a man has married a woman, it is not just important but highly expedient for him to know that it is his obligation, responsibility, and matrimonial duty to give priority attention to that singular thing which, if not done to her satisfaction, could push her into infidelity. And that thing is constant, satisfactory sexual intimacy that gives her orgasms.
♀️♂️💜💚📐📏🧢👒EVERY MARRIED WOMAN
Sexual satisfaction is a fundamental matrimonial right of every married woman.
♀️Unfortunately, there are husbands who nonchalantly gloss over this need, disdainfully shrug their shoulders, and tell their wives who complain that they are not sexually satisfied:
♂️”And what do you want me to do? Kill myself because of you? I can’t risk my life by doing it more than once per week. Is it food? You’d better control your lust!”
💜Sir, if you are the kind of husband described in the last paragraph, please listen. Your wife opening up and telling you that she is not satisfied with the quantity and quality of your sexual services is not wrong in any way. In fact, she deserves to be praised for finding the courage to tell you, because some women are too shy to open up.
💚If she is not satisfied, that reality simply tells you that there are some things about sex that you still need to know. As a husband, it is your duty to sit up and prayerfully find out what you are not doing that leaves her unsatisfied.
♀️♂️💜💚📐📏🧢👒FOR NEARLY TWO DECADES!
In one of our past devotionals, we cited the instance of a pastor who, for seventeen years, could not satisfy his wife sexually! When his wife told him, he was neither offended nor defensive. Instead, he went to great lengths to find a solution and finally succeeded.
📐Please click on the following link to read that devotional, as it might be of some help to you:
https://maximum-marriage-ministries.net/devo/the-clitoris-pt-2/
♀️♂️💜💚📐📏🧢👒WONDERS SHALL NEVER END!
Only yesterday, I watched two short, real-life videos featuring two different husbands who engaged the services of professional infidelity investigators and successfully tracked their respective wives to hotel rooms.
📏One wife was found in bed with two men whom she had brought to the hotel to sleep with her.
♀️But, as it is said, “Wonders will never end!” The woman in the second video, the wife of a millionaire, was caught by her husband in her hotel room with three men whom she had paid ₦200,000 each to satisfy her sexual urges.
♂️Watching the bizarre spectacle, I could see the shock on the faces of both the woman’s husband and the professional infidelity investigator he had hired to track his unfaithful wife.
💜Just imagine a married woman in bed with three energetic men at the same time! The room’s floor was littered with their footwear, dresses, and underwear. This businessman’s wife was not just hungry for sex; she wanted an orgy.
♀️♂️💜💚📏📏🧢👒THE BIG SURPRISE
If you expect those adulterous women to be ashamed and speechless because they were caught red-handed, then you are mistaken. They were both bold and outspoken, each blaming her husband for not being available to satisfy her sexually.
💚One of them said that they had been married for sixteen years and that she had complained repeatedly, but her husband would not do anything to remedy the situation.
♀️♂️💜💚📐📏🧢👒BUT YOUR WIFE IS A RED-BLOODED WOMAN!
Even though it is true that those unfaithful wives were wrong, there is still a great need to address husbands on this burning issue.
♀️♂️💜💚📐📏🧢👒”OWE NO MAN ANYTHING”
The Bible commands every Christian:
📖”Render therefore to all their dues: tribute to whom tribute is due; custom to whom custom; fear to whom fear; honour to whom honour. Owe no man any thing” (Romans 13:7–8a).
💚This portion of Scripture commands us to give everyone what is due to them.
📐Pay taxes to the government, give customary dues to those entitled to receive them, obey the constituted authorities at every level, and honour individuals whom you ought to honour.
📏By extension, this command (Romans 13:7–8a) demands that you give your wife that thing she may not have the courage to voice out: her sexual rights!
🧢God is not silent on the matter of sexual rights in marriage, either in the Old Testament or in the New Testament.
👒In fact, in the Old Testament, He made it explicitly clear that if a man no longer loves his wife or she has fallen out of favour with him, he must nonetheless ensure that, even in that situation, he never denies her food, clothing, or sexual intimacy.
♀️Please read:
📖”If the master marries another woman as well, he must still take care of the first woman. He must continue to give her food and clothes. He must not refuse to sleep with her” (Exodus 21:10, EASY).
♀️♂️💜💚📐📏🧢👒HUSBAND, YOU’RE SEXUALLY INDEBTED TO YOUR WIFE
In marriage, husbands owe their wives sexual satisfaction and should not expect them to seek it elsewhere.
♂️When you fail to attend to your wife’s sexual needs for whatever reason, you are in the wrong. You are also indirectly telling her to go elsewhere to find satisfaction, which is abominable.
♀️♂️💜💚📐📏🧢👒GIVE TO GOD, GIVE TO CAESAR
It is sad to note that among those starving their wives sexually are preachers of the Gospel. If anything is appalling, this is one of the most appalling situations.
💜How could you be so busy “doing ministry” to others while forgetting your wife and leaving her sexually starved for weeks, months, or even years? Sir, where is your conscience?
💚You claim that you are on fire for God and that you love Him so much. Well said! But hear what the Bible says:
📖”If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?” (1 John 4:20).
📐You cannot truly profess love for God while having no affection for your wife and leaving her sexually starved.
📏And now, because of your sexual negligence, she is secretly engaging young men to help quench the fire of the uncontrollably wild lust that your careless absence from the bedroom has generated in her body!
♀️♂️💜💚📐📏🧢👒CONCLUSION
In closing, let us look at our anchor Scripture again:
📖”Render therefore unto Caesar the things which are Caesar’s; and unto God the things that are God’s” (Matthew 22:21b).
🧢The words of our Lord Jesus Christ in this verse are very clear: give God His due service, but do not forget to give others their rights as well.
👒Your wife’s sexual rights are too important for you to be careless about. They are basic and essential to her life as a woman.
♀️Always attend to her needs promptly, and make sure she is satisfied.🧢👒
💕♥️Tonight’s Bedroom Assignment: Re-read this devotional together just before bedtime and discuss it with open and sincere hearts.
✝️Altar Call: Jesus Christ is calling you! Come to Him today in genuine repentance. Believe in Him and be saved!
🧪⚗️Scientific Info To Boost Your Marriage:
🔬”Jogging and exercising together strengthens a married couple’s emotional bond, improves communication, and increases accountability for health goals.”🔬
📢HALLELUJAH!
🎷PRAISE THE LORD!
🚨Please, share the LINK of this devotional message to at least TEN of your married friends and contacts!!🚨