🏕️🏕️🏕️🏡🏠🛖⛺In our anchor scripture, the lady confessed that her spouse’s “love” was not just tasty; it surpassed the taste and all the other qualities of the richest wines!
🏕️🏕️🏕️🏡🏠🛖⛺A RICH WINE
A good, rich, and excellently brewed wine is elegant, silky, and supple in the mouth. But according to this lady, her spouse’s “love” was far more elegant, silkier, and suppler to the “taste buds” than even the very best deluxe wine!
🏕️Did she speak the truth? Absolutely!
🏡It would sound like a very reckless exaggeration until you understand exactly the kind of “love” she is talking about. She is actually talking about romantic and sexual love! From every point of view, a wife finds good sexual intimacy, beautifully crowned with orgasms, far more thrilling than a barrel of brewed wine.
🏕️🏕️🏕️🏡🏠🛖⛺A WRONG MENTALITY
A woman is, by nature, a delicate and highly perceptive being. In a sense, she is comparable to an experienced wine taster who can easily differentiate between a well-brewed and matured wine and a flabby-tasting, low-quality one.
🏕️🏕️🏕️🏡🏠🛖⛺UNTUTORED
Many husbands entered marriage with virtually no knowledge of the need to give their wives excellently processed and refined sexual love. All they knew was this: undress, insert their manhood hastily lest they experience premature discharge, and drop the seeds for conception.
🏠They hurriedly and thoughtlessly completed all these within three minutes, as if they were being pursued by an enemy. Then they turned their backs on their wives and began slumbering, snoring loudly and preventing the poor, sexually unfed women from sleeping, thereby adding injury to their pain!
🏕️🏕️🏕️🏡🏠🛖⛺LET’S HAVE A BRIEF SEX CLASS, SIR!
Every man was made by God with the capacity to satisfy his future wife, irrespective of her size, age, race, colour, or creed.
🛖However, every husband needs to know some basic things that will help him develop his inborn sexual capacity and successfully fulfil his duty of satisfying his wife sexually on a consistent basis. Here are some of them:
🏕️🏕️🏕️🏡🏠🛖⛺(1) FOCUS ON SATISFYING YOUR WIFE
As a husband, always enter the bedroom for lovemaking with the goal of satisfying your wife. Remember that true love means seeking the well-being of the person you love, even at your own expense. So, make her satisfaction your pursuit. As you do, you will also find your own satisfaction because giving leads inevitably to receiving.
🏕️🏕️🏕️🏡🏠🛖⛺(2) UNDERSTAND YOUR WIFE’S NATURE
Millions of husbands goof or blunder during lovemaking, not intentionally, but because they are ignorant of the unique nature of their wives. They approach sex with their wives, thinking that their wives are just like them.
🏕️Sir, please listen: a woman is sexually different from you!
🏡When you watch your wife begin to undress, your body responds swiftly. You become fully erect within seconds, even though she has not yet removed up to half of her clothing, let alone her panties. That quick response to the sight of her partial nakedness is part of your nature as a man. You are like dry grass that catches fire easily and starts burning.
🏠But your wife? She is different. She is like charcoal, which begins to burn slowly and needs to be fanned until the fire spreads to all parts of the coal. Once it is fully burning, however, the woman’s arousal lasts longer, just as a charcoal fire lasts longer than a dry-grass fire.
🛖So, as a man, your arousal is quick. But your wife is different. While you are already feeling like starting the “action” because you are erect, she may not yet have begun to feel aroused.
🛖You are aroused by sight, while she is aroused as you tenderly and affectionately touch her, hold her, caress her, speak affectionately to her, admire her, and so on.
🏕️Touching her increases your arousal and makes you feel like entering her, but you should not enter her yet! Why? Because she may not yet be fully ready.
🏡By touching her, you have begun what is called loveplay, and you need to continue until she tells you or otherwise indicates that she wants you to “enter.”
🏠Can you see that it is a process? Lovemaking is a gradual activity that should not be selfishly hurried for the husband’s advantage.
🛖During the loveplay period, take time to touch, caress, and kiss all the parts of her body that are sensitive to sexual stimulation or capable of producing sexual arousal, excitement, or pleasure when touched. These parts include her breasts, nipples, thighs, inner thighs, and, most importantly, her clitoris. However, do not rush to the clitoris. First, pay attention to the other areas before finally focusing on the clitoris.
🏕️🏕️🏕️🏡🏠🛖⛺PLEASE, ASK HER
You will need to ask your wife to tell you where she would love you to touch, caress, kiss, and fondle her. Why? Because she knows her own body better than you do. Moreover, she is different from the women you may have touched in the past because every woman is unique and in a class of her own.
⛺It is important to do what she says will give her pleasure, except where it involves anything forbidden by the Word of God or anything that goes against your conscience.
🏕️🏕️🏕️🏡🏠🛖⛺CONCLUSION
Now, can you see that making love is like brewing choice, excellent wine? It requires time.
🏕️Some wines are brewed to be consumed within one to three years, others within three to seven years, and yet others within ten to twenty years. There are still those that are brewed for thirty years or more!
🏡When the lady in our anchor scripture referred to her man’s love as better than wine, can you now understand what she meant? The man offered unhurried love, carefully processed love, and love so rich that it overflowed with orgasms!
🏠As a husband, you can learn the art of making quality sexual love that surpasses the best of wines!
🏠Unfortunately, many ignorant husbands think that sexual intimacy is like urination: throw out the water and hurry away from the urinal. No, it is not!
🏡By God’s grace, we will build more on this foundation tomorrow.🛖⛺
💕♥️Tonight’s Bedroom Assignment: Re-read this devotional together just before bedtime and discuss it with open and sincere hearts.
✝️Altar Call: Jesus Christ is calling you! Come to Him today in genuine repentance. Believe in Him and be saved!
🧪⚗️Scientific Info To Boost Your Marriage:
🔬”Couples who exercise together report better communication, healthier conflict resolution, and lower marital stress than those who work out alone. Even something as simple as taking a walk together may create valuable opportunities to talk, listen, and feel more connected.”🔬
📢HALLELUJAH!
🎷PRAISE THE LORD!
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