🥥🥑🍉NEVER LOSE YOUR RELEVANCE
God never intended for any spouse to become obsolete after a while. Obsolete means: no longer needed or relevant because one has been replaced by newer, more efficient alternatives. Many wives have allowed this to happen to them. A so-called “side-chick” somewhere—sometimes, far less gifted in physical endowments—now outshines them, rendering them almost obsolete.
🥥🥑🍉BE ON THE CUTTING EDGE OF YOUR SPOUSEHOOD
In giving you to your husband or wife, God’s perfect will is that you remain on the cutting edge of spousehood. He gave you to be a marriage partner who is unique, dynamic, distinct, and ever relevant in the world of your spouse.
🥥🥑🍉A MESMERISING LOVER
God wants you to be a sharp, highly effective, capable, and competent lover who never ceases to dazzle, enchant, surprise, charm, captivate, and mesmerise your partner. But this will not happen by chance, just as no product that dominates the frontline market achieves that position by chance. Brand owners continually work on their products, improve them, and promote them, ensuring that they stay ahead of their competitors.
In the same way, you should constantly review, renew, and improve your qualities as a husband or wife so as to retain your relevance and prominence in your spouse’s consciousness, emotional space, visual orbit, as well as in their romantic and sexual perceptions and feelings.
🥥🥑🍉DON’T BE THE RUN OF MILL SPOUSE
Go beyond what everyone else is doing. Ensure that you are not merely seen but deeply felt and remembered by your mate. This way, when you are absent, the sweetness and fragrance of your personality will linger on, reminding your partner of you and making them long for your return.
🥥🥑🍉LET YOUR LOVE NEVER WEAKEN
God said to the first couple, “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh” (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:4–5).
At the beginning of your marriage, your love for your spouse was evidently blazing, clearly visible and so irresistibly strong that your spouse willingly left their first and closest relationship in life—their parents—and joyfully cleaved to you.
In marriage, one of your foremost responsibilities is to ensure that the fervent love you had at the beginning does not weaken or, worse still, snap. If, for any reason, it has weakened or snapped, restore it without delay. Strengthen it daily. Intentionally increase your affection for your spouse. That is how you retain your first place in their heart. That is how you remain the only “Sun of Love” that lights up the firmament of their romantic world.
🥥🥑🍉WORTH LEAVING FOR
As spouses, do not rest on your oars. Work on your spousehood. Strive to become so loving, so kind, and such a channel of blessing to your mate that they would prefer your company to their phone, social media fun, and television shows.
🥥🥑🍉BE A SPOUSE WHO IS NOT DISPOSABLE
What made the hardworking typewriter of the 1960s old-fashioned, unwanted, and obsolete? The computer.
What made the powerful and dependable horse unwanted and unnecessary? Modern and more efficient means of transportation.
What rendered the landline telephone virtually useless? You already know the answer: the modern cellphone.
Beware! Do not allow yourself to become an archaic, old-fashioned, outdated, and outmoded husband or wife.
🥥🥑🍉CONSTANTLY IMPROVE YOUR SPOUSEHOOD
Many spouses—both husbands and wives—make the common but very serious mistake of neglecting themselves and failing to improve their appearance and performance as married lovers. That is why many spouses dress in their worst clothes while at home, looking unkempt, unattractive, and uninspiring to their partners.
When you present yourself this way day after day—except when going to the office, church, or somewhere outside the home—how can your husband or wife not be attracted to smartly dressed and pleasantly perfumed members of the opposite sex whom they encounter at close range in banks, supermarkets, airports, and other public places?
🥥🥑🍉WORK ON YOUR CHARACTER
When you behave like a wild and savage beast, become provoked over every minor mistake, and have to be begged for days before you forgive, how can your spouse not be drawn to calm, cheerful, courteous, respectful, and compassionate members of the opposite sex outside your home?
Dearly beloved, I believe you are probably reading this kind of teaching for the first time. It is the neglect of personal improvement in spousehood that has caused many people to lose the good and promising mate the Lord compassionately gave them. Do not become obsolete.
🥥🥑🍉CONCLUSION
Father Abraham was not obsolete even at over 140 years of age. He was still vibrant with the desire to have a wife. He married Keturah, and together they had six children.
Moses, despite the heavy and demanding responsibility of leading millions of people through the wilderness to the Promised Land, did not become obsolete as a lover. He also married again when he was over 80 years old.
Sir/Ma, God designed and fashioned you to endure and to become better with every passing year. Therefore, renew and improve yourself daily. Never allow yourself to become an obsolete spouse while your partner is still alive. Your mate deserves the very best of you.🥥
💕❤️ Tonight’s Bedroom Assignment:
Reread this devotional together just before bedtime and discuss it with open and sincere hearts.
📚📖✒️ Quotes For Reflection:
“The married life was designed to be lived in liberty and freedom. The devil, being so wicked and evil, seeks how to make you do something foolish so that you will you lose your liberty suddenly and be cast behind behind bars, where he can put a scar or something worse on your marriage and on your personal image as a person. In view of this, you need to walk in righteousness and uprightness.”(Lovebirds’ Devotional, June 25, 2026)
✝️ Altar Call:
Jesus Christ is calling you! Come to Him today in genuine repentance. Believe in Him and be saved!
🌡️⚗️ Scientific Info To Boost Your Marriage:
“Switching sex positions is a vital practice for long-term marital health. It prevents physical stagnation, relieves joint and muscle strain, enhances blood flow to the pelvis, stimulates new nerve endings, and reduces performance anxiety by keeping the sexual experience engaging and adaptable.”
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