🏖️🏝️🤎🪘Marriage makes you your spouse’s one and only legitimate lover, sweetheart, heartthrob, darling, beloved, dearest, nearest, honey, angel, and so much more. This means you aren’t only their spouse; you are also their romantic and sexual lover. Your amorous presence should be so strong it completely eliminates any need for a side chick or a paramour. Unfortunately, it is in this “extra-spousal” aspect of marital identity and responsibility that most spouses are missing it badly, leading, many times, to heartbreaking consequences, including untimely and harrowing deaths.
🏖️🏝️🤎🪘O, FOR THE HALCYON DAYS?
Have you ever been with a couple who sat and reminisced with great nostalgia about their time together in a special restaurant during the first month of their marriage? It’s wonderful to hear such stories. But do you know what? God’s will is for spouses to create bigger, better, and richer romantic experiences that will produce even more inspiring testimonies.
If you once went to a first-class eatery and had an amazing time, the truth is that you created the story. It didn’t just happen. That means you can plan again and create even better memories! Doing so from time to time refreshes your union and keeps boredom at bay.
🏖️🏝️🤎🪘BETTER DAYS, BETTER YEARS
The Scripture tells us that the life of the righteous gets brighter and brighter:
“But the path of the just is as the shining light, that shineth more and more unto the perfect day.” (Proverbs 4:18).
This means that their love life and marriage should also grow better, sweeter, and richer with every passing day.
🏖️🏝️🤎🪘RELEASE NEW VERSIONS OF “YOU”!
To actualize a love life that grows increasingly better by the day, spouses must understand that it is their responsibility to remain fresh, new, and attractive to each other in every aspect of marriage.
Reinvent yourself by giving your body some imaginative and creative attention with a shaving stick once in a while. Refine and strengthen your character by consciously choosing to be kinder, more sacrificial, and more compassionate. Repackage yourself for your spouse and see how thrilled they will be with the new version of yourself that you present to them.
🏖️🏝️🤎🪘BE NEW, PRESENT-DAY, AND FRESH
Spouses must throw out the “age” factor and give the necessary attention to being multidimensional lovers to each other. Remember the various shades of romantic lover that you are, as listed earlier: sweetheart, heartthrob, darling, beloved, dearest, nearest, honey, and angel. All these describe who you are to your spouse. Endeavour to practically live out each of these qualities for the happiness of your husband or wife. That is one of the ways to keep each other immune to infidelity.
🏖️🏝️🤎🪘MANY YEARS AGO IN ENUGU
Many years ago, I visited the office of a brother in Christ in the great city of Enugu, Nigeria. On the wall of his office was a picture of a 63-year-old Black American woman. She looked no more than 36 years old. She had purposefully taken good care of herself, and it showed.
But her example isn’t unique. There have been many other women like her, and there are many even today. Such women simply prove that age is no hindrance to anyone who truly wants to be beautiful or handsome for their spouse. Age never becomes a hunch on anyone’s back to disfigure them. You can take good care of yourself and look knockout for your mate if you set your heart on doing so.
🏖️🏝️🤎🪘THE “MAMA” WHO TURNED HEADS IN EGYPT
In the pages of the Bible, we have the example of Mama Sarah, who was stunningly beautiful at the age of 75. Such was the power and magnetism of her beauty, charm, and allure that the king of Egypt seized her for himself.
If Mama Sarah dressed well and took good care of her body, we can safely conclude that Father Abraham was also a clean and well-dressed gentleman. If our spiritual parents, Father Abraham and Mama Sarah, emphasized cleanliness, personal grooming, and good dress sense even in old age, why should you, a modern-day Christian who is their spiritual descendant, look like a museum piece or a Nok terracotta sculpture at the mere age of 40? It doesn’t make sense. Take good care of yourself and walk in the footsteps of Abraham and Sarah.
🏖️🏝️🤎🪘CONCLUSION: SWEETHEARTS FOR LIFE
But don’t only take good care of yourself and look attractive for each other; go on to live an ever-new and ever-fresh love life in which all the thrilling features of your younger days are still present: kissing, cuddling, embracing, afternoon sex, non-sexual interactions, periodic romantic getaways, and so on.
Whenever you are together, throw away the Grandma and Grandpa complex. Embrace the Lover complex and let it show, because you are sweethearts for life!🏖️
💕❤️ Tonight’s Bedroom Assignment:
Re-read this devotional together just before bedtime and discuss it with open and sincere hearts.
📚📖✒️ Quotes For Reflection:
“No matter how well matched, harmonious, and compatible you and your spouse may be, it is of utmost importance that you both constantly be wary of sin. Yes, beware of sin! “(Lovebirds’ Devotional, 24 June, 2026)
✝️ Altar Call:
Jesus Christ is calling you! Come to Him today in genuine repentance. Believe in Him and be saved!
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