🧡🍂In the Lovebirds’ Devotional of August 29, 2025, we said to housewives:
“When it comes to romance and sexual intimacy, please be unconventional, uncultural and untraditional!
Just as your righteousness must exceed that of the Scribes and the Pharisees, so must your practice of sex be way higher than what the strange women are offering out there.
Choose to be exceptionally liberal and unrestrained in bed during sex with your husband. Let him know that you’re a Bedroom Matchless Grand Mistress!”
The message of these three paragraphs from a past edition of Lovebirds’ Devotional should be a constant part of your love-life doctrine or philosophy as a wife.
🧡🍂DOCTRINES OF DEVILS
Very many wives have a completely wrong approach to sexual performance in marriage, and this is largely due to ignorance of the word of God and the wrong orientation they brought into marriage. They believe it is not proper for a wife to be “loose” with her husband. She must be “tight,” she must “hold herself,” and not let the man have “too much of her.” These are doctrines of devils!
This problem is made even worse by the sickening attitude of playing “hard to get” or “shakara” with their husbands — refusing to consent until they are begged or given a tip or a gift.
Dearly beloved housewife, please listen. No matter how shapely, lovely, smooth-skinned, strikingly beautiful or well-endowed you may be as a woman, if your approach to sexual intimacy on your matrimonial bed is nothing to write home about, or is frustrating because you are always “doing shakara,” your husband will not enjoy the best of you.
Now, there are basically two sexual approaches open to you as a woman. One is the “Passive Receptive Method” and the other is the “Active Aggressive Method.”
🧡🍂THE “PASSIVE RECEPTIVE METHOD”
What is the passive receptive method? It is the sexual approach whereby a wife lies on her back on the bed during intimacy, opens her legs and stays idle like a log of wood, doing nothing in response to her husband’s lovemaking efforts because she sees sex as “something men do to women.” This error originates from the mind, as the lady sees her vagina as a mere receptacle rather than an organ capable of action in response to her husband.
Madam, your entire body is a glorious “love machine” and every part of you should be gleefully and enthusiastically involved in making love to your husband. One of the fundamental truths you need to know as a wife is this: you are not necessarily meant to be a mere responder to your husband during sexual intimacy. You are meant to be fully active — as active as your husband and sometimes even more.
🧡🍂THE “ACTIVE AGGRESSIVE METHOD”
This is the right, proper and natural method of lovemaking that a wife should adopt and use in marriage. The name is almost fully self-explanatory.
It is a method whereby the wife is active during intimacy because it is sexual intercourse and not sexual injection. Intercourse means “fellowship” — a time when both parties are active participants in what they are doing together and neither is a spectator or an onlooker.
The word “Aggressive” in the method does not mean being violent, rough or harmful. No.
The “active aggressive method” of lovemaking by wives in marriage is about being passionate and assertive during sex with your husband. It gives you the right to take the lead and to initiate sexual intimacy. It is a preventive and proactive method that captures your husband’s heart, addicts him to your vagina, breasts and body in general, and protects him against the allures of strange women who also know this secret and superior method and are using it to snatch husbands in droves — especially husbands of wives who are playing “hard to get” and are at the same time lazy and indolent during intimacy.
🧡🍂MANY HAVE LOST THEIR HUSBANDS
Indeed, very many ignorant housewives have lost their husbands because of their use of the “passive receptive method.” In many cases, the husband still lives with them under the same roof, but an active-aggressive woman outside (alias side-chick) has since stolen his heart, keeps it, and is the one really enjoying the man economically and emotionally, while Madam is merely a pregnancy carrier and a child-rearer. Please, don’t let this misfortune befall you.
Be active-aggressive in the bedroom. Be superlative and sensational in bed. Hold your husband’s heart and affection with the hands of your amorousness. Yes, let him know that you’re a “Bedmatician” and a “Bedroom Matchless Grand Mistress!” (BMGM) and that he will never need to go aside to those disease and demon-infested girls/women out there!
💕❤️ Tonight’s Bedroom Assignment:
Reread this devotional together just before bedtime and discuss it with an open and sincere heart.
📚📖✒️ Quotes For Reflection:
“Every marriage has a glorious future, and that is why you must not walk by sight. Don’t let the challenges in the life of your spouse today lead you to write them off and walk out of the marriage.” (Anselm Ahman. Lovebirds’ Devotional, April 26, 2026)
✝️ Altar Call:
Jesus Christ is calling you! Come to Him today and be saved!
🌡️⚗️ Scientific Info To Boost Your Marriage:
“Regularly sucking a wife’s breasts can offer several intimacy, health, and physiological benefits.”
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