🩵💚🧡In yesterday’s devotional, we noted that the Active-Aggressive Method is: “the right, proper, and natural method of lovemaking that a wife should adopt and use in marriage.”
🩵💚🧡DESIGNED TO BE ACTIVE-AGGRESSIVE
Dear housewife, your body is designed to be freely active and aggressive during lovemaking with your husband. That is why, as the intensity of your arousal heats up and soars, your body moves into a “thrusting mode” where you feel an uncontrollable urge to jerk your hips in motions that correspond with your husband’s actions.
When your husband makes these thrusting movements, he isn’t pretending or even just trying to please you; it is simply an involuntary expression of his nature. His body feels the need to connect deeply with yours. That is the divine design.
🩵💚🧡THAT STRONG FEELING TO DRAW SOMETHING IN
Similarly, you are designed to receive him. At a high phase in your arousal process, your body begins to feel the urge to draw something into itself—overwhelmed by a strong sensation of pulling him closer.
That is exactly the nature God gave you. It is only normal and natural for you to let go of yourself and be completely unashamed to do whatever your feminine instincts tell you to do in those glorious moments. Give your body absolute liberty to respond to the sexual thrills coursing through it. Such freedom of spirit, soul, and body enables you to experience waves of orgasms. This is God’s design.
🩵💚🧡NEVER REGULATE YOUR BODY IN GLORIOUS MOMENTS
When you instead choose to regulate, control, or subdue your feelings and suppress your natural excitement—for whatever reason—you are silently working against the will of God for your marriage. You are carrying out self-sabotage and acting contrary to the divine design.
Such conduct dishonors God and is often born out of pride, false chastity, or ignorance. Should you later accuse your husband of being unable to satisfy you, you become untruthful because he put in his best, while you sabotaged your own body’s physiological buildup to orgasm. In such a case, your husband is in no way to blame.
🩵💚🧡ALLOW GOD TO HAVE HIS ENJOYMENT
More importantly, when you sabotage your orgasmic process, you cheat God of enjoying your enjoyment of sexual intimacy. Don’t you know that God takes pleasure in the prosperity of His people, including their sexual prosperity? (Psalm 35:27; Rev. 4:11).
Always avoid letting anything hinder your sexual enjoyment, because you are not the only one enjoying it. This may sound heretical to some, but it is not; it is pure truth.
🩵💚🧡DO IT AS SIMPLY AS YOU DRINK WATER
When the Bible calls sexual intimacy “water” (Proverbs 5:15), you are expected to understand that you should engage in sexual intimacy as simply as you drink water. Does anyone ever have to beg you, plead with you, or give you a tip to encourage you to drink water? No!
We all drink without the slightest feeling of shame, shyness, or fear. We drink water freely and without being self-conscious or calculative. In fact, we can drink water anywhere. That is how free you should feel about making love to your husband, and vice versa.
🩵💚🧡CONCLUSION
Do not think, “By the time we finish, he may use my enjoyment to insult me,” or “He may feel that I am promiscuous,” or “He may say that I am carnal.” Such suspicious thoughts are devilish; never entertain them.
And to the husbands: On no account must you use your wife’s freedom in the bedroom to reproach, insult, ridicule, or revile her. It is most ungodly, and God does not take such things lightly (Proverbs 3:29).
Finally, sexual intimacy with your husband is your covenant right in marriage. You should not allow the devil to place any mental blocks in your mind or emotions to hinder you from enjoying it. Trust your husband and always freely make love to him: actively and aggressively. Aim not just to satisfy him, but to enjoy yourself to the fullest each time—making him irrecoverably addicted to you. That is a righteous addiction!
💕❤️ Tonight’s Bedroom Assignment:
Reread this devotional together just before bedtime and discuss it with an open and sincere heart.
📚📖✒️ Quotes For Reflection:
“And when it comes to the couple’s bedroom life, size, shape, height and width do not matter and that’s why God created men and women in different sizes; knowing that any Spouse can excell in the marital intimate life irrespective of their size.”(Anselm Ahman. Lovebirds Devotional, August 29, 2024)
✝️ Altar Call:
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🌡️⚗️ Scientific Info To Boost Your Marriage:
“Embracing your spouse frequently in marriage—such as sharing a 20-second hug—serves as a powerful, non-verbal, and non-sexual act of affection that strengthens the bond between partners.”
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