⏰🛟🥁🍎🍅When you read the chapter that tells the story of David’s encounter with Goliath (1 Samuel 17), the full details of Goliath’s bodily size, armour, and spear are chronicled.
⏰But nothing is said about the size of David, his sling, or his five stones. Why? Because it wasn’t necessary.
🍅Going by David’s age, it was obvious that he was a mere adolescent. His sling was that of a shepherd boy, and his stones were not rocks from a quarry but ordinary pebbles from a nearby stream!
🛟Another thing that the chapter is silent about is how David acquired the skill and proficiency with which, using the very first stone, he brought Goliath down in absolute prostration, face-down, with the deadly stone buried in his big skull!
⏰🛟🥁🍎🍅TRAINING: THE SECRET
Sir/Ma, the plain truth is that it took years of secret and unannounced training in the wilds of Bethlehem, as David kept his father’s sheep, for him to attain the level of expertise and mastery with which God used him to kill Goliath!
🥁So also is it in sexual intimacy in marriage!
⏰🛟🥁🍎🍅NOT YOUR SIZE
In sexual intimacy, it is not how big, small, long, short, wide, narrow, thick, light, or heavy your sexual organs are that counts, but the ability, agility, dexterity, expertise, and skill with which you use them. You acquire this know-how by training your mind, your whole body, and your sexual organs!
⏰🛟🥁🍎🍅PLEASANT SURPRISE!
And may I surprise you? Here is the surprise: one of the reasons husbands and wives live under the same roof is to enable them to train, practise, and rehearse sexual intimacy regularly and consistently until they become grandmasters in the art!
🍎All this means that sexual intimacy is not just for conception and making babies. It is also for occupying one another’s thoughts, retaining your partner’s affection, physically cleaving to one another, and “detaining and holding back” each other from falling into the hands of seducers or seductresses.
⏰🛟🥁🍎🍅THE BEDROOM VIRTUOSO AND MAESTRO
In every area of activity, there are measurable levels of attainment.
🍅In the marriage bedroom, God’s will is for every husband to be so good in bed that his wife can confidently regard him as a bedroom virtuoso.
⏰Similarly, it is God’s will for every wife to be so good in bed that her husband can proudly regard her as a bedroom maestro and a matchless lover.
🛟When spouses attain these high levels in their love life and understand that they can go even higher, they will cleave to each other and keep learning and growing in their relationship as married lovers. Neither will think of extramarital affairs, let alone want anything to do with them.
⏰🛟🥁🍎🍅OUR ANCHOR SCRIPTURE
The Benjamite warriors mentioned in our anchor scripture were not born mighty warriors who could use both their right and left hands. They trained and acquired those unique abilities.
🥁Perhaps you are wondering how the sexual organs could be trained. Yes, they could be trained. Any part of the human body can be trained to adapt to doing things with which it was not previously familiar.
🍎Your mouth can be trained to pronounce words differently. Your ears can be trained to pick up certain sounds better than before. Your hands, legs, and nose can be trained to adapt to performing new tasks.
🍅In the realm of sex, your vital sexual organs can be gradually trained and gently drilled to acquire the necessary skills for better sexual performance. Wives can train their thighs and buttocks to perform movements that delight their husbands.
⏰I was not yet ten years old when I realised that women consciously learn, practise, and master how to shake their buttocks while walking. So, any part of the body can be trained.
🛟Husbands, too, can train their bodies to sustain sexual intercourse for extended periods without “accidental discharge.”
⏰🛟🥁🍎🍅CONCLUSION: BECOME LOVE LIFE GRANDMASTERS
All that we have said calls for husbands and wives to be on the same page sexually. This is exactly how it should be in marriage—not for each person to seek individual satisfaction and thereby sneaking into infidelity.
🥁Spouses, please team up with one another and work together to develop your bedroom life until you both become love life grandmasters!🍎🍅
💕♥️Tonight’s Bedroom Assignment: Re-read this devotional together just before bedtime and discuss it with open and sincere hearts.
✝️Altar Call: Jesus Christ is calling you! Come to Him today in genuine repentance. Believe in Him and be saved!
🧪⚗️Scientific Info To Boost Your Marriage:
🔬”Keeping malice (the silent treatment, coldness, and emotional withdrawal) triggers chronic stress and a constant state of fight-or-flight that harms both mental and physical health.”🔬
📢HALLELUJAH!
🎷PRAISE THE LORD!
🚨Please, share the LINK of this devotional message to at least TEN of your married friends and contacts!!🚨